By Our Side Down Life’s Road 7/27/2011

Betty Elmhirst, from Drummond Island in the U.P. of Michigan, decided to come to Mackinac Island this past Saturday to attend the Festival of the Horse Breed Show.  A horse lover all her life, Betty has owned and trained her own horses for many years and was looking forward to an afternoon of sitting in the sun and watching some great looking horses strut their stuff.

The day was also a celebration for Betty.  After a battle with cancer, she had returned for more testing last week.  A few days later she received word she could now celebrate her one-year anniversary of being cancer-free.  She was pumped and ready for a worry-free, happy day of watching horses.  She got so much more than that.

Betty arrived on the island, made her way up Cadotte to the Burroughs Lot, paid her entrance fee, and settled into a good viewing spot to watch the show.  About half-way through, a beautiful black Tennessee Walker, ridden by owner Penny Barr, entered the ring.  The announcer began to talk about the horse, named Drummond because Drummond Island was the horse’s home when Penny bought him.

Betty’s heart began to pound as she watched the horse walk around the arena in the smooth gait for which Tennessee Walkers are known.

Penny Barr, riding her horse Drummond in the Breed Show.

A thousand thoughts went careening through Betty’s mind.  She once owned a black Tennessee Walker named Domino’s Dazzie.  She had trained him herself, then sold him to a teacher on Drummond Island.  Black Tennessee Walkers are not common, and Betty remembered Dazzie as easily trainable, with a wonderful disposition.   At some point she heard Dazzie had been sold again.  Years passed, and she often wondered what had happened to the special horse.  As any animal lover would, Betty often thought of Dazzie and hoped he was healthy and in a good home.

The more Betty watched Drummond in the ring, the more her interest perked.  When he turned and came toward the area where she was sitting, she saw the star on his forehead, then looked down and saw he had one white sock.  She remembers screaming, “That’s my horse!”

I was standing at one of the corners of the arena fence, snapping photos when I heard Betty’s words.  I turned to find Janice Groat – wife of Jim, whose company built the new community stable – listening as Betty (as yet unintroduced to me) talked about the Tennessee Walker in the ring.  Jim and Janice own Mystic Meadows Farm, a certified riding academy and home to champion Tennesee Walker Horses.  Janice’s eyes were sparkling as she listened to Betty’s story, and of course, sensing a story, I introduced myself to Betty and started listening.

By this time Penny and Drummond had finished in the arena, and Penny, not knowing about the drama playing out nearby, had walked away to chat with someone, leaving Drummond with a handler.  We all walked over to Drummond and watched as Betty was reunited with her horse.  It was evident right away that Drummond aka Dazzie recognized Betty.  His ears perked forward at the sound of her voice, and within moments Betty was in the saddle, guiding Drummond through the moves she had taught him.

Horse and rider - smoothly transitioning into one fluid being. A two legged creature moving a four-legged creature through his paces with a touch of hand or knee or foot. No need for stirrups - Betty's grip on Drummond's back is strong and intuitive.

Back on the ground, Betty whispers sweet words to her former horse.

Betty told us nothing could make her happier than knowing Drummond is a much-loved horse of a Mackinac Island summer resident.

Eventually, someone found Penny, and she came over to see what the fuss was all about.  She was so excited to meet Betty and learn some of Drummond’s background.  She invited Betty to the island to ride Drummond anytime she wanted.

Betty, Drummond, and Penny Barr, his present owner.

Betty said she never would have thought anything could make her happier than she already was on Saturday. But seeing Drummond again sure put the icing on the cake!

When we think of those companions who traveled by our side down life’s road, let

us not say with sadness that they left us behind, but rather say with gentle

gratitude that they once were with us.

Author Unknown


22 thoughts on “By Our Side Down Life’s Road 7/27/2011

  1. Aww such a sweet story! Very heart warming 🙂 I miss the island, especially when it’s 100 plus degrees here, heard you got some of that as well recently!

  2. Wonderful – it’s amazing how animals enter (and re-enter!) our lives, especially when we need them. Thanks for sharing.

  3. It’s hard to believe that after all those years she finds Dazzie. It’s as if it was meant to be for her to find him on that day so she would get 2 great pair of news.

  4. Awesome! Reinforces my belief that everything happens for a reason. What a touching story, Brenda. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. You certainly have maximized your island experiences. Thanks again for sharing them with us.

  5. OMGosh! What a wonderful story. I was reading it with a lump in my throat. Betty was in the right place at the right time…it was just meant to be. I just love animal stories 🙂

  6. oh my gosh…made me cry right in my coffee! What an amazing story…no coincidence here – this meeting was totally meant to be. How wonderful, heartwarming, miraculous. The angels were certainly smiling over this one…
    Thanks as always for sharing -Melissa

  7. How exciting to have been there while it all unfolded! And how lovely of Penny to offer to let Betty ride Dazzie/Drummond whenever she could! I wish we heard more of this kind of news all the time. Thanks for sharing this wonderful story! Once again, you brightened my day.

  8. What a beautiful thing…made me cry. Betty and Dazzie/Drummond are both so happy now. Unbelievable and how wonderful! Three cheers for Penny for being so gracious! Three cheers for you for sending us this great story!

  9. Brenda,

    What a beautiful story! And how wonderful that you were in the right place at the right time to get the story and pictures for your readers.

    I think you should write that story for the Town Crier. It’s exactly what they could use. Be sure to include a picture.

    Isn’t Mackinac Island just the best?

    PS: You might as well send the story and picture to your local paper in Georgia. I’m sure they would print a story from a local girl. If not, they should. And you can tell them I said so. On second thought, maybe it wouldn’t be such a good idea to mention my name. You know, some of those southern folk are still fighting the Civil War and they don’t need a Yankee telling them what to do.

  10. I was at Mackinac Island earlier this month and have been reading your stories for about one week now. They are so refreshing and relaxing to me on those days when things get busy. This is one of the most heart warming stories I have ever read….thanks so much for sharing. I look forward to your daily posts.

  11. Thank you for sharing my story, I do have to say I live in Lower Michigan in a town between Port Huron and Detroit ( Marine City ) so even makes for a happier tail because I sold Domino Drummond to a teacher on Drummond island and had been wondering about him for some time . God has blessed me with wonderful friends and family , and I feel he was watching over me on this day also. Thanks again Bree , and thank you Penny for giving Domino/ Drummond a wonderful home!
    Betty Elmhirst

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